Women's fantasies are less explicit in comparison with men’s. In fact, women appear to be more involved with their own emotional responses than with the characteristics of their imaginary partners. Their fantasies frequently include descriptions of their imagined selves, which could range from being a virgin nun to a downright dirty whore. You’d actually be amazed at how many women like kinky stuff.
Kink is a state of mind wherein the ordinary becomes extraordinary. And all women like some form of kink or the other, in varying degrees. Next time you feel the urge to slap him hard while you’re on top, think of other things you’d like to do that are way out of character for you. Some women may be too shy to approach this subject with their lovers, simply because ‘good’ girls aren’t supposed to like bondage and whips.
Here are some kinky ideas you might want to try out once in a while. He, of course, would be astoundingly surprised and probably more welcome to it…
Gizmos and gadgets
Sex toys can be used during both foreplay and intercourse, and they add variety, fun and excitement to your sex life. They are a great way to receive stimulation that may otherwise be pretty difficult and tiring to sustain. If you’re not getting enough of clitoral stimulation, or are not usually sated unless you’ve had multiple orgasms, sex toys are a great addition to your normal sex practices. Now the kink kicks in with the amount of variation in these gizmos available in the market… You can buy them in just about any kinky shape imaginable! There are plenty of dildos and dongs, vibrators, penis extensions, and even anal sex toys to choose from. The most popular ones are, of course, those shaped like male genitalia… Oh, and we like bunnies too, don’t we, girls?
Anal Sex
Every woman has unique tastes when it comes to sexual stimulation. Some women find anal sex absolutely electrifying, but most are just shy to bring up the subject. There is absolutely nothing wrong with anal sex, if it gives you more pleasure than pain to you. And no, you’re not the only straight woman on the face of this earth who’d like to have something stuffed up your rear end. However, don’t force yourself… but there’s no harm in trying either. This requires plenty, and we mean PLENTY, of lube though… Who knows, you might just find something that drives you wilder!
Role plays
Role plays can be tons of fun, provided they are done with a bit of elegance and some sophistication added to it. Pretending you are somebody else allows you to venture places you wouldn’t usually go. It means you are voluntarily forcing yourself to go outside your comfort zone. Some popular ones are Headmistress-Pupil (lots of spanking to look forward to), Boss-Secretary (lust and power, the perfect combination for kink!), Photographer-Model (he can look, but he can’t touch your scintillating body), Striper-Client (sex without the emotion), and plenty more… However, always make sure to talk about what you plan to do prior to engaging in role plays if there is a chance your partner may feel unhappy about it. Fetishes are normal and fun, but just be aware of what lengths you are asking your partner to go to fulfill yours.
Three is company too
Threesomes are not just fancied by men, you know? There are more women than you think who fancy this sort of a kink! Threesomes are not like regular sex, they require both imagination and sensitivity. You need to get into the situation with some idea of what you're going to be doing. For the more adventurous, thrill-seeking woman, adding someone new into the picture might be quite an interesting idea. (For those men who are threatened by the idea of sharing their woman with another man, they need not really worry actually… another popular female fantasy could be her desire to be with another woman… Imagine how that works out for you, mister!) You must remember that threesomes could be dangerous for any relationship, and they must be handled with extreme care and immense planning.
Dirty dancing
It’s no secret that most guys would love to see their women do a private sexy dance for them. Some couples even go as far as to have poles installed in their bedrooms for the express purpose. Lap dances and pole dances are very popular foreplay practices to turn men on. But have you ever given thought to how well he would fare with the pole? Ask him to do it for you… He might actually be better than you expect! And if he’s not, you could probably ask him to take video lessons.
Aggressive love
Maybe you’d like to try some S&M… Some women have an aching fantasy of bossing their men around just as a typically kinky thing to do; this might be way out of character for them in actuality. The man in turn must be completely submissive and give in to each of her whimsies. This can actually lead to be more entertaining for the man, in fact! On the other hand, it might get a little painful sometimes, so before the hot-wax ritual begins, make sure you’ve established a code word, so you know when to stop yourself when he says it.
Masturbation show
Who says masturbation must be done only in private? Many women like to watch their men do it as a live performance of sorts… This probably arises from natural curiosity and the genuine desire to learn how to handle his penis the way he likes it. If this has ever featured in your fantasy, why don’t you see if he’ll do it for you? He might feel awkward in the beginning, but he’ll get a grip over himself eventually. After all, if he can do it all alone in the bathroom, there’s no need to shy away from his significant other.